{"id":14080,"date":"2023-06-06T19:23:22","date_gmt":"2023-06-06T23:23:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/siawso.org\/?page_id=14080"},"modified":"2025-10-05T21:28:45","modified_gmt":"2025-10-06T01:28:45","slug":"history","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/siawso.org\/fr\/history\/","title":{"rendered":"L'Histoire de SIA"},"content":{"rendered":"

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L'Histoire de SIA<\/h1><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n
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Dans une cuisine de Baltimore, un soir de janvier 1982, trois femmes assises autour d\u2019une table parlaient des abus sexuels inqualifiables qu'elles avaient subis dans leur enfance, des d\u00e9cennies auparavant, commis par des membres de leur famille (leur p\u00e8re, leur m\u00e8re, leur beau-fr\u00e8re). Suivant le mod\u00e8le de r\u00e9tablissement en 12 \u00e9tapes des Alcooliques Anonymes, elles ont admis leur impuissance face \u00e0 leur v\u00e9cu , ont demand\u00e9 l'aide d'une puissance sup\u00e9rieure aimante afin de pouvoir faire la paix avec leur pass\u00e9, et ont commenc\u00e9 leur processus de gu\u00e9rison et d\u2019\u00e9panouissement personnel. Elles ont alors commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 se d\u00e9barrasser de la honte et de l'auto-culpabilisation, et \u00e0 vivre leur vie sans \u00eatre entrav\u00e9es par le poids des abus. Cette soir\u00e9e-l\u00e0, un nouveau programme d'entraide en 12 \u00e9tapes a vu le jour : les Survivants de l'Inceste Anonymes (Survivors of Incest Anonymous)\n

\nDe nos jours, les personnes \u00e2g\u00e9es de 18 \u00e0 118 ans se r\u00e9unissent dans des lieux \u00e0 travers le monde, par t\u00e9l\u00e9phone et sur Internet, et parlent de ce qui \u00e9tait autrefois consid\u00e9r\u00e9 comme \u00ab innommable \u00bb : leur propre r\u00e9alit\u00e9 d'avoir \u00e9t\u00e9 abus\u00e9es sexuellement dans leur enfance par ceux qui \u00e9taient cens\u00e9s les prot\u00e9ger et veiller sur elles. Guid\u00e9s par les 12 \u00e9tapes et les 12 traditions du programme SIA, les survivants en voie de gu\u00e9rison animent leur propre groupe, ce qui leur permet de se soutenir mutuellement. Le programme SIA ne vise pas \u00e0 remplacer une th\u00e9rapie ou tout autre service professionnel en cas de besoin. Elle permet \u00e0 une fraternit\u00e9 de survivant.e.s de transmettre le message que nous ne sommes pas \u00e0 bl\u00e2mer, que nous ne sommes pas seul.e.s et qu'ensemble, nous pouvons gu\u00e9rir.\n

\nLes membres de SIA ont des origines raciales, ethniques, religieuses et politiques diverses, des situations matrimoniales, des orientations sexuelles et des degr\u00e9s de capacit\u00e9 ou d\u2019incapacit\u00e9 vari\u00e9s. Les agresseurs dans leur vie sont souvent des membres de la famille, des amis de la famille, des membres du clerg\u00e9, des enseignants, des mentors, d'autres enfants ou adolescent.e.s, ou toute personne qui a trahi l'innocence et la confiance de la victime. Nous d\u00e9finissons l'inceste dans un sens tr\u00e8s large. Beaucoup de ceux qui participent aux r\u00e9unions SIA partagent leur lutte contre la col\u00e8re explosive, la d\u00e9pression, les addictions et les compulsions, le perfectionnisme, l'isolement, les pens\u00e9es suicidaires et les relations troubl\u00e9es avec la famille, le conjoint ou le compagnon, et les figures d'autorit\u00e9. A SIA, nous trouvons l'espoir et la gu\u00e9rison en retrouvant la confiance en soi et l'estime de soi, et nous apprenons \u00e0 \u00eatre doux avec nous-m\u00eames et \u00e0 nous aimer.\n

\nChaque ann\u00e9e, alors que nous nous r\u00e9unissons lors de notre Conf\u00e9rence des Services Mondiaux, SIA c\u00e9l\u00e8bre son anniversaire et se rem\u00e9more son pass\u00e9 captivant. Nous nous souvenons qu'une lettre publi\u00e9e en 1984 dans \u00ab Dear Abby \u00bb \u00e9voquait SIA et attirait l'attention d'un public national. Les membres de SIA ont fait des apparitions anonymes dans les d\u00e9bats t\u00e9l\u00e9vis\u00e9s nationaux des ann\u00e9es 1980 et 1990, notamment \u00ab Donahue \u00bb, \u00ab Geraldo \u00bb, \u00ab Sallie Jessie Raphael \u00bb et \u00ab People Are Talking \u00bb, pour n'en citer que quelques-uns. Ces apparitions ont co\u00efncid\u00e9 avec une prise de conscience culturelle selon laquelle le tabou de parler des abus sexuels subis pendant l'enfance allait devenir une chose du pass\u00e9. \u00c0 cette fin, tous les membres de SIA travaillent ensemble au service de la fraternit\u00e9 et fa\u00e7onnent l'avenir passionnant de SIA en r\u00e9pondant aux besoins de ses membres dans le monde entier.\nPour en savoir plus sur l'histoire de SIA, \u00e9coutez la cofondatrice Linda D sur YouTube \u00e0 https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@survivorsofincestanonymous.\n

\nExplication du logo par le graphiste: \n
L'image que j'ai con\u00e7ue est en harmonie avec les concepts de base du programme SIA. Elle parle aux survivants de la continuit\u00e9 de la vie. L'\u00e9chelle, l'\u00e9chelle de Jacob, repr\u00e9sente douze \u00e9tapes vers la r\u00e9v\u00e9lation et l'espoir. L'arbre est un symbole universel du passage du temps, de la force et de la croissance. Le c\u0153ur repr\u00e9sente nos \u00e9motions en lambeaux mais toujours intactes. Parfois na\u00eff, notre c\u0153ur a maintenant des ailes.
\nSur le plan conceptuel, le logo refl\u00e8te l'id\u00e9e de changer la perspective du soi. Du moi form\u00e9 \u00e0 l'\u00e9poque de l'inceste, refl\u00e9t\u00e9 par les racines de l'arbre, au moi r\u00e9tabli d'aujourd'hui ou au c\u0153ur avec des ailes, il n'est ni d\u2019ordre m\u00e9dical, ni aust\u00e8re, ni restrictif. Il vous demande, en tant que survivant, de vous autoriser \u00e0 esp\u00e9rer \u00e0 nouveau, de changer vos modes de relation avec votre cercle int\u00e9rieur compos\u00e9 de votre famille et de vos amis, ainsi qu'avec votre nouveau cercle , plus large et mondial, celui des autres survivants.\n
\nIl tire subtilement sur la manche du monde pour attirer l\u2019 attention : \u00ab Nous sommes l\u00e0. \u00c9coutez. Nous nous aidons nous-m\u00eames \u00e0 travers le changement. Nous sommes pr\u00eats \u00e0 aider les autres. \u00bb<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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